- Do not destroy others with criticism that kill
Criticize it in perbolahkan , but criticized the apparent intent of destroying not allowed . Scathing criticism that will psychologically destroy other people , so it is likely to impact on the way people view us . Therefore learn to give constructive criticism , so other people will feel more respected. Besides criticism memebangun will also make others more respect to us .
- Perform a genuine acceptance
Knowing it or not we are human beings always need a name accepted, though with people who are not in the know though . Let us imagine if we were in a new environment , so the first thing we hope for is we take for granted by the environment . If we ourselves are aware that we need to be received by others , it is only logical we also can accept other people's circumstances are. This will make other people happy and feel very rewarded . By us providing sincere acceptance to others , we increase the award itself, improve self-image , and made him feel relaxed and secure with our existence .
- Make the other person feel important
I believe we definitely feel very rewarded if we always considered important by others . And vice versa other people happy if we consider them important . If at any time we can make the other person feel important , then it implies that we have increased the self-esteem of others.
- Keep a positive thought for others
Positive thinking to others is also a form of respect for others . Why do I say so because it feels strange , if we are prejudiced or negative thinking to others , when we ourselves have to know exactly what is in the mind by others . To keep that positive beroikir to others , because usually it will come positive attitudes and actions of others as well terhadaap .
- Smile
Smile that hinted genuine unconditional acceptance . When we smile at someone else , he would feel valued , important and valuable . He will feel more comfortable with him . And will make our relationship with others becomes warmer .
- Say thank you
Thank you two of the words that are so simple but have tremendous benefits in our social life with other people . Every time we say thank you to someone else , then the awards themselves will be increased . Say thank you to everyone , for what in lakukakannya to you , even if it's just something small . Believe with us to say thank you for the little things that people will soon be doing a great thing for us
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